<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3799955507543692534</id><updated>2011-11-28T07:33:51.923+08:00</updated><category term='married'/><category term='Couple'/><title type='text'>Lover Guide</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ur-loverguide.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3799955507543692534/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ur-loverguide.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>James Lee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05907567054459863535</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3799955507543692534.post-4527618523666472685</id><published>2008-06-27T10:31:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-27T10:33:22.537+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Couple'/><title type='text'>Dating without dollar's</title><content type='html'>&lt;p&gt;Dinner and a movie can drain your allowance, but resourceful daters can still hae a stellar time. Here are some inexpensive ways to release your inner cupid:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Print out a map of the constellation, grab a balnket, pack snacks, then head out for some stargazing.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Do a little research and conduct your own historic sites tour&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Prepare a meal together- it will be more memorable for havbing created it together&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Good weather is ideal for a coin-flip date. Take a walk with no particular destination and at each intersection, flip a coin. Heads, turn left; tials, right&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Learn a new skill together, like in-line skating, juggling or guitar.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Lousy weather is great time to melt her heart with chocolate fondue or snuggle up for a popcorn-enchanced movie marathon. Select a favourite or two each, or rent by theme: pirates, superheros, dating&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Do you share a hobby or other interest? Together, you can hunt for fossils, scrounge garage sales or attent a poetry reading&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Romantic picnics can be set anywhere: you backyard, a scenic park or even your living room floor. Don't forget the candles!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-Find a park and fly a kite or see how fast you can make it to the top of the monkeys bars. -Where will it end? At an ice cream palour, of course!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;-Don't have just a date: chronicle the experience with a digital camera. Then create a memory album.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Remember&lt;/strong&gt;, money can't buy a good date-the best one are those spent with someone whose company you enjoy no matter where you are.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3799955507543692534-4527618523666472685?l=ur-loverguide.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ur-loverguide.blogspot.com/feeds/4527618523666472685/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3799955507543692534&amp;postID=4527618523666472685' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3799955507543692534/posts/default/4527618523666472685'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3799955507543692534/posts/default/4527618523666472685'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ur-loverguide.blogspot.com/2008/06/dating-without-dollars.html' title='Dating without dollar&apos;s'/><author><name>James Lee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05907567054459863535</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3799955507543692534.post-2881708872087578383</id><published>2008-06-27T10:24:00.000+08:00</published><updated>2008-06-27T10:25:27.620+08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='married'/><title type='text'>7 Stages of marriage</title><content type='html'>&lt;p align="justify"&gt;Every marriage is unique, but most follow a similar path that flows through seven distinct stages. Understanding the work required at each can give you a road map for handling rough times, and help you and your spouse focus on how to be happy, secure and satisfied.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stage 1&lt;/strong&gt;: PassionThe honeymoom pahse when romance and intense attraction lead to comitment.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stage 2&lt;/strong&gt;: RealisationDisappointment and conflict mark this unavoidable period. The challenge? Laying the groundwork for a long future together&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stage 3&lt;/strong&gt;: RebellionSlf-interest versus shared interest. Knowing the difference between a destructive desire to flee and a healthy need to be your true self is this stage's key test.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stage 4&lt;/strong&gt;: CooperationIn time, marriage means managing money, building careers, raising kids. Going from lover to partner to parent can get rocky.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stage 5&lt;/strong&gt;: ReunionOnce the kids are grown, then what? For happy couples, it's time to enjoy each other again. But the ideal can be hard to achieve. Passion's embers need stoking; expectations need rejiggering&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stage 6&lt;/strong&gt;: ExplosionJob loss, health woes, illness or death in family-such event can come in waves. Will your marriage be source or sorely tired by new roles, limitation and fears?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stage 7&lt;/strong&gt;: CompletionMarital bliss often soars after decades together because "knowing" each other now has a deeper meaning- and a bigger payoff&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3799955507543692534-2881708872087578383?l=ur-loverguide.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ur-loverguide.blogspot.com/feeds/2881708872087578383/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=3799955507543692534&amp;postID=2881708872087578383' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3799955507543692534/posts/default/2881708872087578383'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3799955507543692534/posts/default/2881708872087578383'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ur-loverguide.blogspot.com/2008/06/7-stages-of-marriage.html' title='7 Stages of marriage'/><author><name>James Lee</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05907567054459863535</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
